Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Day +6

It's been almost a week since Rylie's transplant, and she is doing really well considering. Rylie's hair is coming out, but she still has a good amount on the top of her head. The sides and back are very thin. :( We expect most of it to be gone tomorrow, or we may buzz it off since all the loose hair is hard to deal with. It's on Rylie's face, in our mouthes, all over bedding and clothes. I can't bare to shave it off, but now that it is coming out so quickly and becoming a constant clean-up effort, I may rope Lyle into doing it.

Rylie is going to look very different without her red hair. Why is losing hair such a big deal? She's just a baby, so it shouldn't be hard, right? I guess it is just a physical reminder that she is sick, and it breaks our hearts. We are thankful yet again that she is young enough that she won't remember any of this, nor does she care about her hair right now. She mainly cares about her Signing Time videos and her new pot and wooden spoon from Grandma. At least she has her priorities right. It's her mom that struggles with vanity. Blah.

Today Rylie had a tough morning after a tough night, but she really perked up with some anti-nausea medicine they gave her this afternoon. She played some and has learned all the hand motions to itsy bitsy spider. Also, when we ask her how old she is, she holds up her index finger in a very intelligent manner. 

For those that are praying for Rylie, please pray with us that Rylie will become 100% engrafted. Sometimes, someway, the body realizes that the donor cells don't belong there, and they begin to make their own cells again. If this happens, Rylie has done all of this for nothing, and I'm not sure what we'll do; some families come back for second or third BMTs. If Rylie's cells are "engrafted," it means the donor's cells are growing and becoming hers. Please say extra prayers that she does engraft, and her cells are 100% donor cells. Only our God has control over this, so we petition to Him for His mercy. 

One more thing, Rylie still has her cough and runny nose. The doctor said that it probably isn't due to the extra fluids anymore since most of the extra weight is off now. He thinks it is probably a virus. As long as it doesn't move to her chest, he feels like it will eventually just go away once her white blood cells start growing again (which they could start doing any day now). I can't help but be concerned, but for now there is nothing to do but pray and wait. 

8 comments:

L and B said...

Glad to have this good update, Jade. And for Lyle's call. Such a mix of emotions and experiences right now,and hopes and concerns for you guys as the process continues and Rylie's body responds to the treatment. Glad she is playing when she's feeling good, and taking it easy and accepting your comfort care when she's feeling crummy. Thanks for your focus and love. Sending you our love and prayers l&b

Donna Doris said...

Thank you so much for the news update. The first & last thing I do every day is check your blog (plus - countless times throughout the day). You are so thoughtful to take the time to keep your faraway family & friends informed. We are keeping you in our prayers. Love from your NE cousins

Jo and Leonard said...

Just a quick note to send our love to all three of you. Know each day brings something new, yet closer to healing -- yes we are sending all the positive prayers and vibes Rylie's way! Hugs and "knuckles" all around! Love, Jo and Leonard

Cindy Lehman said...

HI Jade, Lyle and Rylie! Betty sent your mother's day update which I was so glad to get as somewhere I had misplaced your blogsite. I read all your recent months journey and today I read your most recent post. I have to admit a tear escapes --I know about losing hair:) But God is so tender and sweet--He knows just how to wrap His arms around us. I am also tender to Rylie today as we leave tomorrow to see Katy and Taylor married--it is now their race to run for Him. I know the preciousness of a daughter and how great a cost it is to trust Him with our time together--He knows how much too. He is worthy of our difficult journeys--that is my greatest comfort!
I loved each and every picture and video--yes, Rylie is "ridiculously cute"!
Hugs and prayers,
Cindy

Another Namtarts Blog said...

Engrafting is a new and important word to our vocabulary! Thanks for such a good letter...honest and touching...Gary and Deb

Jenny Ward said...

Oh how dear you guys are to our heart! I'm sure it's devastating to see Rylie's pretty red hair falling out. But like you said, she doesn't really care and will not remember it! We're praying hard for the donor cells to engraft 100%! We will also pray that her body can fight off this virus and that it won't spread to her chest! Praying for strength for all of you!

Love,
The Wards

Kjirsten said...

These must be long days and nights. Know that we're thinking of you and praying for you. And keeping our eyes peeled for the latest trends in headwear, if Rylie chooses to go that route. You might at least need something to keep off those Minnesota skeeters. Hugs from CO!

Joy said...

I can understand why losing her hair would make you ache, Jade, and it's okay to be upset about it! She is your baby!!! When Elaina gave up her binky, I was the one who was upset, not her. Because it was a part of her, of her babyhood, that she had given up.

I think about Rylie ALL the time and I hope we get to see her again soon!

Proverbs 3:5–8

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones."